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Have You Caught the Hurry Disease?

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I couldn’t wait to get to our favorite family vacation spot – Telluride, CO. That was months ago. Now I can honestly say that I had caught the “hurry disease” before I left. You know – the latte in one hand and cell in the other.

In reflection, I recognize how much I hurried through breakfast to get to work, hurried to next appointments, hurried to conscientiously follow up with clients, then hurried to get home and unwind. (Am I kidding myself? Once home I hurried to cook dinner and finally hurried to bed so I’d be rested for the next day!) Exhausting just writing about this.

It took me two full days to unwind. I had to intentionally force my thoughts to move away from work and busyness. Being somewhat isolated and with sketchy internet, I am forced to slow down a bit each day. It was not until the third day I found myself finally withdrawn from my “hurry disease.”

Do you relate?

Do I really have to be in that big a hurry? After all – I AM in charge of my time. Why is it so easy to pressure ourselves to push, push, push? Guess what?! My clients are still there. My friends are still there. And I might have missed memories with family had I not disconnected to be fully present with them.

So here’s the deal. It’s way too easy to be driven by obligation and get in the rut of “have tos.” If we don’t intentionally stop the crazed pace of life, we might miss things like:

• Being fully present with people

• Recognizing daily positive occurrences

• Seeing better ways to handle conflict

• Living mindfully

• Listening – really listening without being distracted by the next “to dos”

Enough said! My commitment is to commit myself. Let’s make a pact, shall we?! You hold me accountable and send me your commitment so I can hold YOU accountable.

 

 That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

Do It Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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“Monday Morning Leadership for Women is a treasure of timely insights and action plans that can advance any woman. It’s terrific!”

~ Candace O’Keefe -Executive Director, Leadership America, Inc.

Authenticity: Who Are You, Anyways?

Authenticity: Who Are You ?
You likely would answer just like I would: “I know exactly who I am” …and you could not have achieved success in any area of your life without a certain degree of self-awareness and self-confidence.In my own experience, my confidence was strong until the day I reflected more deeply on this question about who I am. Why? Because I sensed that many professionals may often exude a presence that just seems fake. You know – kind of “put on” for the moment. And I wondered….do I do that?Is their self-awareness and self-confidence based in fact or is it just a facade?

Being less than authentic is rarely intentional — it is just our feeble attempt at trying to speak to issues in a way that meets the need of the moment. Unfortunately, it often results in a reversal the next day, causing you to spout something very different.

This is called “being a chameleon!” Here’s the danger: Others never get to know who you are, what your views and values are, despite how certain you may be about them. In politics and sports, we sometimes hear, “We just don’t know who’ll show up,” and this is a reference to a chameleon, someone who is not consistently one way or the other.

As the economic terrain becomes more treacherous, our instinct, of course, is survival. What must I project to stay alive, to keep my job, to get that promotion? The temptation, however, seems to be: do what is most expedient to achieve the desired outcome.

While that may suffice in the short term, the far-reaching results are less than desirable.

Most of us don’t realize the price we pay for being less than authentic. Remember when your mother told you to always tell the truth because you would not have to remember what you said?

Take that advice a step further. Don’t just tell the truth, BE the truth. Be you. Being authentic alleviates the mental and emotional exercise of trying to remember who you are supposed to be in any given situation.

Some professionals believe being authentic in the workplace is a risk – and often one they’d rather not take. Statistics back this statement. Only 50 percent of today’s workforce comes from a place of authenticity. It’s no wonder employees are often baffled by where the boss is coming from…or which version of their boss will show up from day to day.

Here are some questions to consider as you assess your authenticity as a leader and as a professional:

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Do you give consistent messages regarding your goals for the team, or do you change directions mid-stream without fact-based reasons?

How often do you communicate your vision and passion for the business…in person, that is? Or, are your employees supposed to “know that” because the mission/vision statement is framed on the wall?

When was the last time you openly asked for feedback? Or, have you assumed all is well because the numbers say so?

Being authentic may make you vulnerable, but allowing others to know your vision, your passion, your standards and your expectations is a bottom line benefit.

Being authentic results in fewer misinterpretations, fewer misunderstandings and fewer mistakes. It frees you to be you. As Anne Morrow Lindbergh said, “The most exhausting thing you can be is inauthentic.”

Ultimately, the most important benefit in knowing you are authentic — and perceived as such — is that you have the complete trust of those around you.

Take right now, as an example: Do you have the complete trust of those around you? Are you sure?

Trust is the cement of relationships. Think about it.

This article originally appeared on PrimeWomen.com

That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the softskills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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5 Things I Can’t Live Without!

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ANNOUNCEMENT: I’m delighted to be a regular contributor to the online magazine Prime Women. Below is my first published article to share with you.

What are those things that are absolute MUST HAVES in your life?

I’ve been noodling on that recently while vacationing in a town where Starbucks was nowhere to be found. The reason? They don’t allow “chain coffee stores” – so they told me. Can you imagine my withdrawal that week?

So, here is my list of 5 things I can’t live without (other than Starbucks):

1. Not Your Daughter’s Jeans

At last – someone designed a jean that is NOT what my daughter wears. These are absolutely the most comfortable, slimming jean ever! Speaking of daughter, mine had been touting the brand for months. Finally, she pulled me into the mall last week insisting “Mom, just try them!” The rest is history. I bought a pair in every color.

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2. iPhone

I’m addicted, and not just for the phone. Being curious and a life-long learner, any spare time I have you’ll find me surfing for all kinds of information. Additionally, I feel secure that if some glitch happens and my tech gene doesn’t kick in – the Apple Genius Bar is always there for me. Just think – real people to answer my questions! How novel is that!

3. AGL Shoes

Spike heels have gone by the wayside. Comfort is where it’s at. It took a while to find shoes I like and that fit like a glove. Shoes that are both comfortable and fashionable. The AGL brand fits my fancy all the way around.

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4. Trader Joe’s

Trendy and fun to shop, it’s my go-to store for tasty frozen foods – from appetizers to entrees to desserts. I enjoy finding different types of condiments, checking out their spectrum of wines, or flirting with the flowers to brighten up my dining table. It’s all there—and unique at that!

5. Yeti Cup

I already mentioned my Starbucks habit. I insist on ordering my latte at 180 degrees just so it doesn’t cool down too fast. Maybe I’m too particular, but I want hot drinks hot and cold drinks cold. With my Yeti, it can keep the coffee hot or iced tea cold for hours. The next Yeti on my bucket list is their cooler to take on vacation. Yahoo for Yeti!

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That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the softskills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Refresh Your Brand – Renew Your Energy

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I wrote during out glorious Telluride, CO! How could I NOT get renewed from our vacation?!

Having said that – at the beginning of the trip it was tempting to check emails, answer what seemed important ones…..and then BANG! My family reminded me, “What are you doing? We’re on vacation! ENOUGH ALREADY!”

Now that got my attention. So I stopped. Did you? Just asking because I know for a fact I’m not alone in doing what comes naturally at work – WORKING. Here’s another message a family member gave that day—“Are you realllly that important that you have to stay connected?”

Since those harsh reminders to stop, unwind and focus on making memories – the mountains seemed more majestic, the cool breeze more refreshing and the rest of the trip was what I intended. A Vacation!

PS: Remind me I wrote this when next year’s vacation rolls around.

 That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the softskills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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A Brand That Walks Its Talk

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It is pure joy working with clients who show their “leadership presence” in so many ways.

Recently, while at a Fortune 500 energy company, the leaders demonstrated their values of being committed to success, doing what’s right, and being respectful. Here are some examples of how these values have served them well.

• From the moment I arrived at their corporate headquarters, the front desk security guards were friendly and welcoming.

• One of the executive assistants had everything set up at the workshop PLUS food delivered to me personally during our coaching sessions.

• Both groups of participants – senior executives and high potential candidates – were totally engaged throughout our Personal Branding program called, Make Your Mark & Make It Count!

• Respect was evident even walking their halls receiving a friendly hello along the way.

It’s all about CULTURE – and this is evidence of a brand walking its talk in every way.

 That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the softskills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Creating the Connection

Being a Mentor Builds Your Brand:

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“We all need someone who inspires us to do better than we know how.”

~ Anonymous

Here are 3 tips for being a great mentor.

 1 – Set the stage

Be clear with your mentee what expectations you have for the relationship. It’s a two-way street – and both of you should understand the rules of the road. When will you meet? How often? What if one of you has to reschedule? What agenda will you follow? Clear communication up front ensures an enjoyable mentoring relationship.

Currently several Fortune 500 organizations are using Monday Morning Leadership for Women as their guide for 8 mentoring sessions. Click here to order.

2 – Be vulnerable

That means be authentic. Your sessions are focused on the mentee… sharing HOW you succeeded and offering your wise counsel to help your mentee be more effective in their role. Sometimes it’s helpful to share things you would have done differently or mistakes you made along the way.

3 – Be a good listener

When your mentee wants to tell all – listen to all. Unless, of course, they are “caught in their story” too long. Believe in the person and what they are trying to achieve or overcome. Listening can develop a trusted relationship in which both of you learn from each other.

 That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the softskills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Mentoring Helps Build Your Brand: We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know!

By Meg Weinkauf

Growing up as a millennial, I relied on my family to teach me some of life’s lessons; for example — I learned from my parents how to tie my shoes and when to say please and thank you. I believe that continuous learning is essential to teach us what we don’t know. Now in my thirties I often say, “tell me what I don’t know.”

There are things college didn’t teach, which is why having someone to learn from is imperative. I had many questions after beginning to work in the real world; for example, How do I build relationships with someone I don’t know? How do I ask for a mentor? Do I need a mentor? How do I handle politics within different companies and organizations? What should I wear to be respected as a young professional?

I had no one to ask until I found my mentor. Working with a mentor is one of the most amazing things in this world. My mentor is incredibly wise and has had many years of

experience. Even though I’m a millennial — and my mentor is a baby-boomer — we get along great! I believe that every generation can learn from one another.

I’ve been reading Valerie Sokolosky’ s book, “Monday Morning Leadership for Women” and it has been life changing for me.

MMLW 3D This book is timeless and has helped me work through many of my professional challenges. I’ve found her book to be a helpful guide at my mentoring sessions as I work through my specific work issues. One specific important lesson from the book is how to “manage sideways.”

In a mentoring meeting we talked about ways to work more effectively across departmental lines and build those important relationships with people in other departments. That was clearly a takeaway that I’ve applied now at my work.

As a millennial, I am passionate about the need to have a mentor to help guide me. And I’m grateful to have secured my mentor. I sincerely encourage every professional to reach out and get one.

 Meg

  Click here to learn more about Meg Weinkauf!

 

Watch this:

If you have five minutes – you’ll laugh at what mentoring IS NOT

 

That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft

skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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You’ll Love These 3 Tips for Staying Motivated

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“Life isn’t a matter of milestones, but of moments.”

~ Rose Kennedy

BE — an Encourager

Research shows that 77% of the messages we get every day are negative. Open the newspaper, listen to complaints, watch the news. Much of what occupies our minds is anything but uplifting.

Take heart and use heart. Be that person who finds ways to encourage others – every day. A pat on the back will do. A kind word is awesome. Giving someone a compliment could make their day. Think of ways you can be a VALUE GENERATOR. That simply means you have made someone feel more valued and everyone deserves that!

Who is a value generator in your life? Who is your mentor? Who believes in you during those times you don’t believe in yourself? If someone comes to mind – tell them.

BE — in the Moment

Time is either well spent or well squandered. So use it wisely. Be fully present with an employee. Stay focused on family when you are WITH family. Be present!

Oh how easy it is to be distracted. Cell phones, multi-tasking, interruptions. Be intentional about where you focus and for how long. Here are a few tips:

• Turn off your cell phone.

• Schedule family or friend time in the calendar.

• Keep work AT work.

What’s my latest focus? Using Fridays to have lunch with someone special. What’s your idea?

BE — in Control of the Controllables

We learned this concept from Steven Covey’s “Seven Habits” book series. Here’s the main message:

• If a situation calls for taking control (and you CAN) then by all means grab it by the horns and wrestle through it.

• If a situation may not be totally in your control (but you could influence the outcome) – certainly try.

• If something is totally out of your control and you can’t possibly influence the outcome – then let it go.

Let’s all revisit the Serenity Prayer:

 “God grant me the serenity

to accept the things I cannot change;

courage to change the things I can;

and wisdom to know the difference.”

 

 

That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

 Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft

skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Women Who Do It Right!

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This month I struggled with what to write. Usually some topic or experience hits me and there it is…something that gets my juices flowing. But not so…until now.

With this past Mother’s Day month in mind, I thought of women who are currently making a difference in my life. So why not use that month to highlight some of them?!

And for those of you who have not birthed a child – “mothering” can take many forms. It’s about nurturing and caring for others – in or out of a family.

WOMEN WHO MATTER IN MY LIFE:

STEPHANIE TAYLOR – My Daughter

It may sound boastful to start with my daughter — yet that’s exactly the right starting point.

Being a mother was my #1 desire…the same as Stephanie.

She takes great pride in “training up my grandchildren in the way they should go so that as they grow up they will not depart from those teachings.” Yes, that’s scriptural and it’s also truth. As I heard Sunday during the sermon, “children may not always do what you ASK them to do…but they will usually DO what they see you DOING.” In other words, children learn behaviors from parents. Now how’s that for pressure?

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TIA VAUGHN – My EA

Behind every executive is a terrific executive assistant — and that’s Tia.

After working together three years, Tia proactively anticipates what I need and often has it prepared before I even ask. Her positive attitude refreshes me and all who work with her.

She’s been known to make a suggestion about something I’ve been thinking but not yet voiced. That’s spooky!

LADAN- My friend with a passion for fun and making people happy.

Just be around Ladan a few minutes and you’ll catch her fervor — not fever! You’ll experience her passion for fun and making people happy. She’s the first to bring chicken soup when I’m sick or drop off her delicious pie when she senses I’m in overload mode. These acts of love always come when I’m in need of extra care or friend time. Ladan knows what it means to have the gift of charity.

EMILY CRAWFORD – My “Sister” Colleague

Our special friendship began in 1990 when we lost our son in a car accident. As colleagues on several projects, she was right there to pick up the slack. No words were necessary – only supportive actions mattered. From that time on, Emily has been an integral part of my life. And it doesn’t hurt that we are both ITALIANS!

To the many others who have been there for me, I am grateful!

That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

 Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft

skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Attitude Affects Presence

“Consider this- an optimist may see a light where there is none, but why must the pessimist always run to blow it out?”

~ Michel De Saint-Pierre

 

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Now add the numbers and they equal 100.

Here’s the deal. Attitude affects how we deal with life. It’s proven that when we ACT optimistically, we become more optimistic. When we SMILE, it’s hard to be depressed. When we LOOK for little miracles that happen every day, we’ll see them everywhere.

Attitude speaks volumes about how we react, how we carry ourselves, even how we live our values. It influences our professional presence and ultimately impacts how effectively we do our jobs.

My executive assistant Tia likes to say that every day little miracles are out there— if we would just notice them. Hence, if a parking place is out front, she’ll say “See, that’s a little miracle just for you.” Or if we acquire a client referral, she’ll say, “See there’s another little miracle for you.” What’s the point? If we don’t recognize the significance of those little miracles, we may focus too often on the negatives.

Here’s my new habit. First thing in the morning, I think of five things I’m grateful for and speak them out loud. That energizes me before my first cup of coffee; and I’m reminded that life is good and there IS much to be grateful for.

 

That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

 Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft

skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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Master These 6 Practical Presence Positives

 Change Happens…For Real!

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A few months ago, driving from Dallas to San Antonio, we went from clear and sunny weather to a patch of snow lasting 10 miles— then back to a bright, sunny sky. In the blink of an eye, we had to adapt. Sun

Isn’t that what happens with ANY change? It can happen just that fast, unannounced. At work you might find yourself being downsized, right sized, wrong sized or resized. Whatever the size – you’re forced out of your comfort zone. And pressed to adapt.

Now how do you show your leadership presence? When chaos happens, it may be more challenging to keep emotions intact. This is when you’re on center stage and grace under fire really matters. This is when people look to leadership to right the ship, give direction, and trust the messages you send. As Jim Rohn said, “You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.”

Take heed of these Practical Presence Positives taken from my years spent teaching leadership change management across the globe:

1 – BE VIGILANT - Always be aware of what’s happening around you. Before a storm, there are often warnings that go unnoticed. Pay attention and prepare yourself by staying relevant, asking for feedback, and keeping your skills sharpened.

2 – KNOW YOUR PERSONAL BRAND - Use your strengths to impact the organization and the people in it. Be authentic as you lead your teams. Authenticity allows you to be viewed as a leader who inspires others to stay the course or move in a better direction.

 3 – FIND SOLID GROUND - When a tsunami occurs, all the tide is drawn OUT. Then without warning it comes rumbling back in. That’s when the most damage occurs. Put yourself in a position to ride it out by finding high ground. Pushing against it doesn’t help. When you find solid ground and apply good reasoning it’s much easier to find ways to move forward or even push back, but not in a defiant way.

4. COMMUNICATE OFTEN – Keep lines of communication open. Always tell the truth and tell it often. Don’t hesitate to say “I don’t know.” In times of radical change, you cannot possibly have all the answers and that’s ok. When people are kept informed, there is less chance of the rumor mill fueling false assumptions.

5. TAKE THE HIGH ROAD – Leave the negative behind. Don’t waste your energy on what “isn’t happening”— rather focus on “what can happen.”

6. THE SUN EVENTUALLY COMES OUT – And it always does. So hang on, stay on track, be focused – eventually chaos will subside. There is life after “change.”

 

More tips for great leaders

 

 That’s My Voice: What’s yours? Let me hear your wisdom and I’ll send you a free article I wrote for SW Spirit Magazine.

 Valerie@valerieandcompany.com

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Find out more about my books here:

 Do it Right!

“Do it right in the presence you exude. Do it right in how you communicate. Do it right in how you demonstrate a strong personal brand. Do it right in how you look, act, walk, talk and ARE from the inside out. Valerie’s tips will build your self-confidence knowing you can Do It Right.”

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Monday Morning Leadership for Women

“Business leaders refer to communications, teamwork, and etiquette as “the soft skills.” They are not the soft

skills if they can get you fired. They are the foundation of business relationships, and nothing happens in business until there is a relationship. This book fills an important gap in the education of new and seasoned professionals.”

~Tom Trotter-IBM Executive & Community Leader

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